Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of John Simpson with the following comment:
Joseph was an ancestor, I have photo'd the grave myself so don't need images, I have also researched Joseph back several generations and most of his numerous descendants. His son John inherited a large estate which was split into a few trusts, our share was embezzled by rogues 19th century. Anyone interested contact me by snailmail - I never do emails.